There are hurtful words a child should never hear, for that matter, even an adult. Little ears listening in a bedroom overhear the plans for their older sister, but when you were born, you were an accident. Then listening more intently to words that crush your spirit, you hear about the family’s financial struggles ever since you were a baby. Then the most devastating words are then delivered. We wish you had never been born. Healing Your Past
My heart breaks for those who feel unwanted and unloved because of verbal and physical abuse. I know it makes it impossible for you to believe my words of hope through your pain. It is a natural response to blame me for letting this happen to you. Despite the rejection you feel from the ones responsible for your pain, I love you and desire to heal your wounded heart. I want you to know your parents don’t have the last say, even though it doesn’t feel that way. You are Your Own Worst Enemy
Here is what I think about you. I knew you before you were in your mother’s womb and know the exact number of hairs you have on your head today. In the utter hopelessness, you feel, I offer you eternal hope. I know you blame me, but somehow, I ask you to work through that struggle. I want you to recognize the enemy’s lies, so you don’t believe in your heart; not even God cares about you. Help with Discouragement and Disappointment
That’s why I came into a fallen world to reveal my love for you and humanity. I came to bring forgiveness and healing to the lost and brokenhearted. I’m asking you to respond to my word and grasp my love for you. Let my passion redeem those hurtful words with loving words of hope and grace. Release the hateful comments and be thankful for your life. Remember, you are my child, and I have loved you from before the time of creation.
For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, and I know that full well. My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place, when I was woven together in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my unformed body; all the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be. Psalm 139: 13-16 NIV
Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations. Jeremiah 1:5 NIV
And even the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Mathew 10:30